please stop crying

if i'm like most men (and i'm pretty sure i am) you have no idea what to say or do when a woman starts crying .if its your girlfriend or wife its worse .well if you care about her its worse .i'm not sure why but i think its against the code of lady like behavior to tell a man why it is they're crying .i would swear its an auto response mechanism that they say "it's nothing i'm fine" .but we know they're not fine .they're the furthest thing from fine .and if you say "oh ok" or anything like that and not try to console them you might as well hang yourself .or at least hang your balls on hook because shes going to let into you .might not be right then .might not be that month .but you're going to get it and you will not win

i'd like to make a plea to all women out there .when you feel like crap for whatever reason .please tell us .don't just say "i'm fine" .i know its yalls way of seeing just how much we care about you by pushing us away and seeing if we come back or let you put the distance between us but that's not healthy .if you love the man you're with be honest with him .tell him when he screws up .or at least his major screw ups cause lets face it .you'd go horse telling us every thing we did wrong .or at least i know my girlfriend would

now i'm sure eventually my girlfriend will read this and i want her to know i'm not typing this about her nor did she or her actions make me want to write this blog .but yes she does do the things i'm talking about .i don't blame her .i know its not something she does consciously and that she does try to be open with me about her feelings .and just for the fact that she does make the effort .makes me only love her more