Tuesday, November 4, 2008

don't lie

i hate being lied to .i mean i really hate being lied too .it makes more pissed off then just about anything else .because not only does it make whatever you're telling me worse by prolonging the truth .it also lets me know you have absolutely no respect for me .and that pisses me off .especially if i had considered you a friend

now i'm not saying lying isn't something i don't do .cause that would be a lie .but i do hate lying and try hard never to do so .there are times i would say lying is necessary but for the most part .there's no reason to .why lie and make something hard on yourself down the line if you can man up and tell the truth and be done with it .i've tried and am still trying to teach my nephews that lying will only make you get in trouble twice .telling them if they do something wrong and they confess about it .they'll only get punished once .but if they do something wrong and lie about having done it .they'll get in trouble twice .once for whatever they did wrong and again for lying about it

yes there are times when telling the truth is extremely hard .like when you know the truth is going to hurt whom ever it is you have to tell .but i know that if i were to lie to them rather then tell the truth it'd only hurt them worse .having given them the false impression of whatever the lie was .and it lets them know that you (like i said before) don't respect them

i honestly don't get the draw of lying .i do feel the urge to lie from time to time but its just easier to tell the truth and be done with it .lying is just a waste of time .the truth will come out eventually and i don't know about you but i'd rather it come out on my terms

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