i might do it if you would just ask

i really hate it when i'm told i must do something .well depending on what it is of coarse like if i were told i had to do something i said i was going to do then its not a big deal but when i get told "hey, come help me move this" .that's a little annoying .whats worse is when my dad says "i need you to come help me" and i'll ask "doing what" and if he knows its something pointless he give me the "i need it done. so you'll come help me right?" not asking me but more demanding me .and i have to say just him doing that makes me not want to help him what so ever .now if he were to just ask me (nicely) to go and help him then i'd be more willing to help him

hes not the only one who does that either .just the most constant one .but i really don't understand why someone can pretty much outright demand your help and expect it .i'm all for helping someone in need but i do expect courtesy when you ASK for it .yet still people don't ask .its almost as if they think they're owed .and i really hate those people that have that false sense of self righteousness thinking every one owes them for no reason