you must be a total idiot

if you're getting into your car at a parking lot and your door is close to the other car next to you .you really need to pay attention to whether or not that other car is on .last night my girlfriend and i went out to eat and then to a movie .and when we got to the van after the movie we both got in .i started the van .the space in front of me was empty so i planned to pull straight threw there .i put the van in drive and as i pull forward no more then a foot i hear this crunch of metal coming from the back .i of coarse stopped and looked back to see that the idiot next to me had opened his door into the side of the van so when i pulled forward it wedged his door into the side causing minor scratches and a six inch dent .that is about an inch deep .before i could even put the car in reverse the man knocked on the back of the van as if to say "hey you have my door" .so i put the van in reveres and slowly backed up about a foot freeing the door from the van's side .i got out and walked around to see how much damage had been done and the douche bag was only concerned about his door .not the van he unintentionally dented do to his carelessness .i really had no idea what to say to the guy and he was acting as if he was stoned or something .it could have been he was just a moron but i'm not sure .so when i saw the dent i told him i knew it wasn't totally his fault although i think it was more his then mine .i just said "uuuuh have a nice night man" shook his hand and went back to the drivers seat of the van .when i got in amilia asked how bad it was and i told her and as i thought more about it i figured i better get his name at least so i didn't get reamed my parents .so i got out and asked the man to his information and he handed me his license and told me "i'm not going to be here tomorrow i'm shipping back to iraq" and i told him i was only getting it due to it being my mom's van .i copied the info off his ID and handed it back to him .wished him luck in iraq and that was it .though when i was next to his window i saw a woman holding what i assumed to be their kid .just a baby under a year old .she didn't even have the child in a car seat .just had it on her lap laying on it's back .that's the mentality of the people that open doors without being aware of whats going on around them